Bargression: How to Manage Frustration While Studying

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In law school, it’s a distant legend that seems about as real as Big Foot or Godzilla. But before the bar exam, it becomes all too real. All of a sudden, you are consumed with an overwhelming feeling of extreme irritation, anger, and sadness at once. As calm as you may be in one moment, the slightest annoyance can trigger a massive rage of uncontrollable emotion the next. What is this feeling, and why does it happen?

Bar exam aggression, more commonly known as bargression, is a common emotion felt by upcoming bar examinees everywhere that spend endlessly long hours preparing for the bar exam. It may be difficult for family, friends, and strangers to understand why you glare at them when their phone goes off or need so much time to yourself, but deep down you know that you’ve just answered one too many MBE questions or essays to stay calm, cool, and collected.

While nothing can be done to prolong the fast-approaching bar exam, there are ways of reducing bargression to ensure that studying not only becomes more manageable, but enjoyable. So take a deep breath, and read these encouraging quotes and study tips to take control of your bargression now!

  1. Respect Your Limits

It’s one thing to know your limits, but it’s another thing to respect them. Ultimately, this means paying attention to the things that frustrate you the most, then avoiding them throughout the day. For example, if you feel like throwing your bar prep books out the window every time someone interrupts you while studying, take the initiative to find a secluded study space where you know you won’t be bothered. Or, if you’re tempted to tear up your Torts outlines every time you look at them, study that subject in smaller sections throughout the day rather than all at once. Taking the extra time now to ensure that you minimize all potential disturbances will help you maximize your studies in the long run.

  1. Practice Patience

Patience is a virtue. And it’s even more of one while studying for the bar exam! Recognize that all things must first be difficult before they become easy. That means that expecting to achieve a 70% accuracy rate on your first practice MBE test is unrealistic, and attempting to memorize an entire subject in a day is an impossible task. Be patient with yourself in the learning process rather than criticizing yourself for what you do not know. Remember – consistent hard work and determination is the key to passing the bar exam!

Have patience with all things, but first of all with yourself.


  1. Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff

Bargression commonly arises during moments when “the little things” don’t seem to be going your way, such as when the tip of your pencil breaks or your weekend study break plans change. When you begin focusing on the bigger picture, however, you will undoubtedly realize that the small details of day-to-day activities don’t impact you as much as you may think. The next time something doesn’t go your way or you’re tempted to get upset, ask yourself, does this situation negatively affect my ability to reach my long-term goals? If the answer is no, it may just be time to stop overthinking, and start looking at the bigger picture of what really matters.

  1. Breathe 

According to Harvard Medical School, deep breathing combats the negative effects of stress by eliciting the relaxation response. This is a fancy way of saying that deep breathing will help your bargression tremendously! Start by sitting or lying down in a secluded and quiet room, then set a timer on your watch or phone for 5 minutes. Continue by closing your eyes, taking a deep breath through your nose, and allowing your stomach to fill slowly with air. As soon as your abdomen fully expands, exhale through your mouth and repeat the process. Once all 5 minutes have passed, your body should feel more at ease and your mind more alert for studying.

Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain.


  1. Vent, Vent, Vent!

Don’t keep your feelings to yourself! Doing so will only prolong your negative mood, if not make it worse. That’s why it is important that you find someone, preferably a friend or family member who is not studying for the bar exam, that you can talk to about your frustrations whenever they arise. Knowing that you have reliable support whenever you need it will not only prevent you from taking out your frustrations on others, but allow you to feel calmer moving forward. If you don’t particularly enjoy speaking to others about your feelings, other methods of venting include journaling, exercising, and laughing.

Written by The AdaptiBar Team
AdaptiBar is the only Multistate Bar Exam (MBE) bar prep provider to combine 100 percent of the licensed questions from the National Conference of Bar Examiners (NCBE) with patented adaptive technology that tracks performance and targets weaknesses, yielding the most efficient and personalized study experience available. The program is designed for each individual to customize their learning and refine internal timing by simulating real-life conditions of the bar exam. Since 2003, AdaptiBar’s dedicated team of lawyers, technology experts, and customer service specialists have provided thousands of law students and lawyers in every jurisdiction in the United States, and more than 50 countries, with the tools and confidence they need to pass the MBE.


  1. Marcus February 5, 2016 at 5:22 pm Reply

    I’ve been studying 20 to 30 minute blocks set at a time, take about a five-minute break continue. I only studied between the hours of eight and five when the exam is going to be taking place, Then finish up my day with a one hour workout. Only because the prior 60 days I’ve been doing it 6 to 8 hours a day I’m getting burned out .

  2. Chad Thorne February 6, 2016 at 9:00 am Reply

    No “bargression” here. I have failed the exam in the past and so started studying in early August for the February exam. Haven’t studied more than 3 hours/day, and more usually 2 hrs./day, ever. I recommend this to anyone who can do it. It also works for me because I have severe ADHD, diagnosed and treated, for which the bar examiners have granted me accommodations for the exam. But I still recommend this method if you can do it, it’a a lot less crazy-making.

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